Friday, September 3, 2010

True love and Ayam Percik

Aishah surprising Mok Nik & Mek (my aunts)

Last weekend we went back to my kampung in Kelantan. Kampung Lubok Jambu, Kedai Mulong, Kota Bharu, Kelantan (to be more precise). Actually all of my uncles and aunts (on my mother's side) are living in Kelantan, and all my relatives on my father's side are in Sarawak. For some reason we have always been the only family living somewhere else.

Happy!

Ever since I was a little girl, our trips back to Kelantan have always been the highlight of my year. For some reason, time stands still when I'm at my 'kampung'. Even now, I look forward to my trips back as much as I did when I was a kid.

Preparing for a big family iftar


Currently, we still go back to visit my grandmother (my only surviving grandparent). She's 96 (I think) but still sharp as a pin. She stays with my mother's eldest sister Mok Nik.

Mok Nik is (in my opinion) the best cook in the whole world. She makes the best Ayam percik on the planet! Her ayam masak merah, gulai, solok lada are all amazing. Plus she is the only one that can make me eat Nasi Kerabu and ask for more.

Ayam Panggang


She is also one of the reasons I believe that true love does exist. Married 4 times (twice to the same man) she proved that although the road may be difficult, the destination is definitely worth it.

Initially married at 13 to a 16 year old student of my grandmother (she taught Quranic recitation), the marriage lasted less than a year since she was not ready. Her second marriage was ended by in laws who thought she was not worthy of their son. Her third husband was abusive and a total jerk. But in the end she re-married the love of her life (2nd husband) and they spent many happy years together until he passed away 2 years ago.

Mok Nik


Although she did not make ayam percik this time (just some delicious ayam panggang), I love seeing her happy with my kids. Watching her, I have faith that things will be ok in the end.

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moknik pandai wat nasik kerabu tak sis?
solok lada die dah mengancam
kalo ngap dengan kerabu mau meleleh air mata woh
hee :D
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1 reply · active 760 weeks ago
pandai .. nasi kerabu Mok nik je yg I makan.. hehe.. kalau org lain punya slow ajer ..Mok nik punya .. ngap!
wah! bestnyer kak :) ieda pon balik besut hari tu asik makan ayam percik, sedapkan! ye la..bila lagi, kat ipoh ni, nak cari ayam percik putih payah yang amat :)
1 reply · active 760 weeks ago
hehe..kat KL semua benda ada.. tapi setakat ni .. tak pernah jumpa lagi ayam percik yg boleh come close to hers..
oh ayam panggang.. :) actually, the food tu tak kisah sangat, but the companion mean a lot more right? :) btw hidayah, u did get my parcel of the headband kan? since u didnt reply to my email i tak sure u actually dapat or not.
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1 reply · active 760 weeks ago
totally! except kalau ayam percik Mok nik ..just me and the chicken pun cukup ..ahaha..

sorry tak inform ..last week was hectic beyond belief..totally slipped my mind.. thanks :)
gile klasik masak ayam panggang mcm tu! hihi...

sweetnye love story tu...........yes, true love does exist - it's what u make of it!
1 reply · active less than 1 minute ago
ahaha..kan ..kita awal2 tengok.. mcm ..emmm.... tapi sedap!

so true..
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abangsahar · 760 weeks ago

Kelantan is sure a special place for many..

at first i thought its ur grandma pic, rupanyer Mok Nik (dah ending baru perkenal)..
looking at the besen, it seem u have a big family gathering last weekend..banyak tu punya ayam mesti kurang2 20 orang makan hehehe..

Mok Nik's love story of being re-united with her love till death takes them apart is quite touching..juz a small question: what do u mean by " I believe that true love does exist"? I thot with the amount of romatic readings u have, shud not be a prob for u to believe in the existence of true love...

i believe true love is unconditional love. a baby to the mother, and a father to a dotter..lebey kurang camtu laa..

btw, juz to share something on unconditional love: http://saifulislam.com/?p=474
3 replies · active 760 weeks ago
that day that we arrived, abah had called ahead and they prepared a family iftar with my aunts and uncles and cousins .. simple with the ayam panggang, gulai daging and sambal belacan .. but priceless for my grandmother to have her whole family under one roof (now everyone has grandchildren of their own so big gatherings are not as often as before)..

reading abt love and believing it is totally different ..

thank you for the article ( getting to be a habit now huh? making me cry..hehe) ... yup unconditional love is probably the rarest of all..
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michael shumacher? · 760 weeks ago

for all u know, u get the unconditional love everyday..that 3 angels of urs loves u TANPA SYARAT.and i'm sure u pun takder syarat untuk menyayangi anak2 u..

just cherish the sweet moments of life, as u said, one day at a time.
of that I have no doubts at all..
wah2!sgt manual cara panggang ayam tue sis...pasti best kan!
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1 reply · active less than 1 minute ago
ahaha.. memang best .. cara yg simple lah hasil paling sedap kot ...
syoknya balik kampung. Wow...home made punya ayam
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1 reply · active 760 weeks ago
best kan? hehe..doesn't get anymore homemade than this ..
Bestnya balik kampung jumpa family and dpt makanan kelantan yg authentic and homemade. Org2 veteran mmg masak sedap... I try masak masakan kelantan tp takkan sama dgn masakan my MIL. Org kelantan mmg suka masak memasak and menjual makanan. I kalau balik lauk2 semua I tapau. So cheap it's unbelievable sometimes. Satu lagi dorang sgt generous...kalau beli lauk bubuh byk2.
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